Actually, when you can't find anything nice to say, you just might consider saying nothing at all.
Yes, that was always my mother's advice: "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all." We have since learned that occasionally the kindest thing to say isn't always nice, but it still allows us the distinction of making our conversation 'good talks'. Love the idea of a Love Meme! Been meaning to get there myself. Thank you for sharing!